You say it was your first wedding so it is not clear that you plan to do more. It would help to give us a feel for what you plan to do with the camera once you get it.
It is worth noting that Nikon lenses are like potato chips -- you THINK you can have just one, but pretty soon you have a whole bunch and look back and wonder how it happened.
In particular I think you need to consider whether you are using it more for "walking around", general purpose, or some specific tasks like architectural shots, weddings, birding, product photos, macro, etc.
And despite the potato chip comment, it is helpful to know if this is the first of a planned set, or if you really want to have one lens only for a long time.