Thought I would update this post. I have pursued my problem with Nikon software support. From giving me the run around then brushing me off I decided to ask for a Supervisor. "We are not interested when it is not a Nikon camera. We do not say it is compatible with 3rd party equipment."
I am disgusted. I have been a Nikon user since the old , no VERY old S2. Bought in 1956 so its in my veins. Stuck with them thru thick & thin. (anyone want an old FE2??) to be treated like that. How fortunate the software division if it is that has nothing to do with the cameras or customer care. Luckily I love My D7000 & P7100 SB900 etc etc Tom